Productive Thinking

Human mind is the only most amazing thing of this world because all else amazing creativities and productivities depend upon one’s intellect. Thoughts, at the same time are the product of our surroundings and experience. Every good or bad happenings in past, present and future was/is/will be furnished with the package over our eyes. Productive thoughts end at constructive creativities and novelty. On the other hand, destructivity thoughts always end at loss of opportunities and terrible episodes. We usually take criticism as a negative aspect but one must endorse that constructive productivity and criticism are positive fruitful aspects of productive thinking as criticism is helpful in positively construction of productivity. Productive Thinking, problem-solving and opportunity-finding framework relies upon the Creative Problem Solving Process. Let us see creative Problem Solving (CPS) process. Under mentioned are steps of CPS

• Analysis of crisis situation
• Ideal success potentials
• Combine and Cluster challenge possibilities
• Fruitful solutions
• Choosing the best principal solution
• Final execution

These steps guide the creative process to elaborate our challenges in better and promising way in greater details and healthy prospects. Each step first involves lots of ideas, facts, problems, evaluation criteria and implementation strategies, and then a convergent phase in which only the most promising ideas are selected for further exploration. Execution is the last but most important step in the phase which need very careful approach as wrong execution might results into demolishing effects.

Positive Attitude

My world is with me. Unfortunately, we all are living in same world but we all have different versions of this place. We usually see same things but we all appreciate its differences. We all love to live but we all have different feelings about life and this is what makes us all different. The world we see is not the real world. This whole is a visual capacity of our mental and moral satisfaction. Let me say that we all have partial picture of this world and even after combining all pieces; we can't make a complete whole picture. You know why? Because these all pieces are not real in nature but capacity of our minds and no virtual image can stand in front of real object. The question is, if we cannot wave out the real things then why we need to feel things like good and bad or positive and negative. Everyone wants to change his life and everyone needs this change to be a good change. The change which makes us more satisfied and make our life better, worthy and pleasant. This all cannot be happened without positive attitude toward people, surrounding and life. We have to seek some good from a bitter worse.

A million dollar question is how?

We can change our life by consciously measuring our attitude and by rational monitoring of our life. We have to seek the standard principals and then have to make our life like those principals, whether they hurt us or not. If we walk this way for the right destination, you will find that like a real hero. You know if you are educated, and you have all money that you need along with desired luxuries of life. Your life always clinches you with luck, success and lucrative circumstances but you just lack positive attitude then in my opinion, you have everything but you lack the worthiest one. Everything has good and bad face but we must have to live with this inevitable.

We have one life and every running day will never look back, what we need to learn is how to share?
Muhammad Irfan Basharat
Saturday March 28, 2009

If I throw you on island- A lonely Island - with nothing but few fruity trees and you have nothing to sail out. My question is what will you do? Whether you just sit there and enjoy all juicy fruits or will try to make an ordinary ship or something to sail and try to get your soul out. I think everyone like to save his soul out. Every time you have to make decision, decide that way which is harmless to others. If something is harmful to any being but is beneficial to you then believe in me that that benefit will end at mysterious and heavy loss. One simple way to make us positive is to love other people and to respect their emotions.

I love people because I love to beloved and by this way I can make me better then satisfy.
Muhammad Irfan Basharat
Friday,January 11, 2008

Anger dilemma

Introduction

We see people around us with empty eyes, unhappy faces and stained behaviors. They don't like to interact with people; the more they interact more infuriate they feel. It's true that more interaction of different souls mean more social incidents among them so need of more understanding is obvious. These sort of disturb souls usually cannot decide the right way. Sometime there mind say "it's good" and afterwards "leave it, its bad". Healing of these unexplored emotions is not easy because intellectual complexities are still hidden.

Exploring own identities i.e. emotional relations of mind and body, is a very good attribute which may devour sore feelings. It is essential to consider that our sentiments are our body generated reactions. When a person feel annoyed, cherished, and/or respected etc, his body generates explicit reaction. Exploring these body generated reaction can positively engage our body and mind. It is further investigated and confirmed that anger can severely affect one's ability. By striving deeper into anger, the person fell into ultimate loneliness and thus punishes himself but its noticeable that these people fail to express their actions and sometime even indefinite towards their prepared activity.

Anger is felt whenever a person feel anxiety, fear or disbelief. The belief that we are on the right lane and other group is driving on the wrong direction couple the situation with anger, which might be dived towards violence. I personally feel that another asset of anger is lack of strength to cop up challenges i.e. when the vigorous challenge become more potent than our management capabilities the reaction is obvious in the form of anger. There is certainly endless list of anger cropping reaction but remedy toward the whole list is just love and love more, mercy and forgiveness can also make things optimistic toward rewarding edge.

Myths about Anger

Certain myths are clinched with Anger. Some of them are given below

1. Anger Is Inherited.
2. Anger always directed toward violence.
3. Every angry person is a patient.
4. Anger cannot be cured.
   

Anger Management: How to Program

It is understandable that mild anger is more or less the essential part of an even life but regular and intense anger can make things bitter. Regular anger can produce different diseases because it has direct effect upon nervous system. Successful management of anger can only be achieved by self help. Some points which may help to control anger are given below.

1. I am not a super human but an ordinary person. I am here to help other.
2. I have to think more positive.
3. I am a rational person with realistic approach.
4. There is a high possibility that I can make mistakes.
5. I am not able to control the world; Patience is a good thing.
6. Leave the habitat where you feel reasonably uncomfortable.
7. Be bold in accepting fellow's success.
8. Smile more and more.
9. Try to help your surrounding.
10. Listen more and speak less.